Why is it that ladies can openly express how attractive or even ugly a guy is when they pretty much crap on men who do the same. Oh yes hello, yes thank you for pointing me out, I am guilty of doing this as well. Oh my yes wow what people change?! You’re kidding!
Sure, for the past I don’t know 4 years, I told every living creature how BADLY I wanted to date or marry a WHITE guy. Ask my fall/winter quarter friends. ASK THEM. I sounded like a fangirling idiot. I would openly express how HOT “blah blah” is and say that Asian guys aren’t that good looking or WHATEVER. Until I realized that the guy that God would want for me to date were the opposite of my assumptions of the guy I should date. Looks are so stupid when it comes to the “boyfriend/girlfriend checklist.” Oh my gosh shoot me now I’m going to pop an ovary.
I’m getting very frustrated with this double standard it’s making me nauseous. I know girls who hate it when guys rate women from a scale but they essentially do the same! It’s so infuriating. Everyone can say whatever they want and yeah, I am taking it personally. But when God healed my broken self image, I completely realized and confidently believe that I am beautiful. In fact, everyone is. “But not everyone is attractive!” You shut your mouth YOU SHUT YOUR MOUTHH. That is NO reason to call anybody ugly! I am literally INCAPABLE of calling somebody ugly BECAUSE. IT’S. NOT. TRUE. Whenever someone calls another person ugly, it’s a LIE. It really is. And my friends who are calling other people not really cute, or kind of pretty, or downright ugly. Let me tell you FRIEND. I have been on that other side. The side that’s has been both told to its face that its ugly and knows people are calling it “oh yeah just a little pretty not really I guess” behind its back. And it hurts to HEAR my friends calling someone else cute or “ewww he’s not that cute.” Everyone shut up!
I’m about to have another ovarian cyst rupture oh my freaking goodness. LADIES. You want men to stop objectifying women? YOU STOP. YOU STOP! aldskjalkwdjalwk
Dangit, am I bitter? :( Sorry this is so incoherent.
SORRY ONE MORE THING. BY THE WAY. Girls aren’t allowed to call guys super hot and sexy when they judge men who are say the same exact things about women. GUESS WHAT. YOU’RE. BOTH. OBJECTIFYING. THE OPPOSITE. SEX. Did I say this already? I need to stop. Okay I’m stopping. :( This also needs to be addressed in the Christian community, too. As long as you’re not making out and not having sex, then it’s okay to say this lustful things right? No. Not right. It happens too often. It makes me heart hurt. I think my ovary popped.